PVC projects to the rescue! Have a water fight!

PVC water cannons made with Instructables

PVC has always been fun for my boys and I to play with, and it came in really handy this last week of August in Maine, where the temperatures and humidity climbed quickly and we needed to find refuge from the heat. I remembered some Instructables I had seen, and together with a hack saw, miter box, rotary tool, some PVC, cement, and a few O-rings, dad and sons constructed a few water cannons to cool off with. Past PVC projects for this dad and sons have included a playhouse frame and some other structures. We also have a huge top-secret project going that I will most certainly blog about, but will not be finished until next summer. We’d also like to build a PVC trebuchet and a wicked PVC rocket launcher. Working with PVC is easy. It’s sturdy but fairly soft. If you don’t have PVC shears or some… read more

Music Monday, still on a Tuesday – The North Pond Hermit songs

North Pond Hermit Maine woods in winter

As Wyldstyle proclaims in The LEGO Movie that the day of uprising against Lord Business will be known as “Freedom Friday, still on a Tuesday”, this Music Monday post is coming to you on, well, Tuesday. An article appeared on GQ recently about the man known as The North Pond Hermit from Central Maine, which is where I live. And on this subject, over the years, at least three Mainers that I know have written songs about the man. Christopher Knight walked into the woods of North Pond, Maine twenty seven years ago, and lived there in a tent since his capture this year. He spoke only one word to another person in that entire time. He never lit a fire, for fear that his location would be given away, and used only a standard camping tent for shelter. Anyone from Maine will tell you that winter in this state… read more

Search engine fun – Weird search terms that found my dad blog

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A fun thing I like to do when I check my blog stats *cough* times per day is look at the search engine queries people give to search engines and ultimately end up at my site. Today, I looked back at all the search engine terms readers have used to find articles on this happy little dad blog. Most are straightforward. Some are just plain weird. The Cute and the Creepy A while back I wrote a post on the weird, cute, and sometimes creepy things my kids say. A collection of kid quotes, you might say. As I was writing the post, I thought it a bit weird to have “cute” and “creepy” in the same piece, but it worked so I went with it. Turns out, a lot of people want cute and creepy in one neat package.  Check out these search engine terms that led readers to… read more

Dear Madeleine – Teaching my kids life lessons using family history

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About fifteen years ago, I became interested in my family history and began asking relatives about where we came from. From that point I was hooked. I’d caught the genealogy bug. I’ve discovered some amazing things in those fifteen years, such as the fact that we are descendants of Vikings and pirates. Most of my blood is French – Acadian and later Franco American, but I also have Norwegian, German, Irish, and as I’ve recently discovered, possibly Mi’kmaq. I think it’s important for kids to know where their roots are, and a lot of kids find it fascinating. Genealogy for kids can be a really fun activity, and you will never run out of things to research. In addition to the names and dates of your ancestors, you will learn about history and culture, and might even inspire you to learn a new language. I’m going to introduce a new… read more

ISIS, plane crashes and tornadoes – Why the news is bad for my fatherhood

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ISIS beheading Christians, another plane crash, more tornadoes destroy entire towns, another celebrity suicide, more plane crashes, the endless Middle East conflict, another suicide bombing and pictures of dead children. It’s all in the news, all the time. It seems like it’s all bad news, and I’ve had enough. Last week I was reading story after story about ISIS beheading dozens of people in Iraq. Innocent people who did not share their killers’ radical beliefs. There are so may readily available and in your face pictures of heads on spikes and dead children. The children. It literally made me sick to think about the children. And it pissed me off. The last time I was so pissed off at the world was October of 2001, and I marched into my local recruiter’s office to enlist in the US army. But that’s a whole different story. I came to realize that… read more

Parenting assumptions nobody should make about stay at home dads

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Another year, another school, another kid found ineligible for special education services because he’s too damned smart. But after a perfectly written letter from my wife to just the right people, a second meeting was held and our four year old was identified as needing special services. The battle has just begun. We’ve done this before with J, and we know how it goes with a very gifted kid who does not fit the mold in our school district. B tested well into the genius range on the IQ test done by the child psychologist, with his true score likely being much higher as the tests needed to be stopped because my son never hit a ceiling. Over 99.9th percentile. I’m uneasy talking about it because it somehow feels like bragging, but it’s not. It is what it is, and it’s not easy, not for B and not for us…. read more

Stay at home dad well-being survey is looking for participants

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Attention stay at home dads, full-time dads, fathers who stay home with their kids. Whatever you want to call men who consider fatherhood their primary job, spread the word. Researchers from Widener University are looking for stay at home dads to participate in an anonymous, online survey about the well-being of families where the father is the primary caregiver. Some dads have already taken a similar survey, but the questionnaire has been shortened and the researchers at Widener are looking to recruit more fathers. If you are full time dad between the ages of 18 and 65 and care for children under age 18, these Widener researchers are looking to hear from you. If you know any dads who fit this demographic, please share this link with them. Even if you don’t, please consider sharing. The more information the study collects, the more our society might understand stay at home… read more